Fashion isn't a world I'm familiar with. Can't comment on if it can be controlled. I know proplr try, and there are now lots of +size models, and models with tattoos and stuff. But I wonder if these are artificial appendages that the fashion body will never embrace because they didn't come naturally or something. Might get more out of shaming the girls who are slaves to it, and by actually giving support to those who resist. Most of the time when I hear people backlash from people about guys saying that it's wrong to pander to the industry, the two arguments are a) we just wear make-up for fun, b) You don't know what it's like to be a woman faced with the media, we're the victims. And saying things like what Jaco is saying is equated to victim-shaming. I think you'd need to show him some solid evidence of how they're the victims for him to reneg on his comment.
Everyone, be it black/white/orange, male/female/other is a queen. You talk about appreciation yet put down women who put on make up or get implants? Why? That's not building a community up. That's putting a community down. You talk about appreciating women yet you always make a sexual remark about them in all your posts. That's not appreciating, that's objectifying. You say that and then tell your definition of a real queen calling all the others a fake one? How is that even building a community up? And the sexual remarks continue. Good head? Is that the only thing white women are good for? Is your appreciation so shallow? Is that even appreciation? I know you try to appreciate people, but do that without putting others down or without being blatantly séxual about your appreciation. You want women to be themselves. Good. Some of them feel themselves by using makeup. Let them be themselves. I know they shouldn't have to feel insecure, but they do. It's not a perfect world. Don't put them down and make them feel more insecure. Also, I'll let you in on a secret. When you request lock because the thread is being derailed, stop replying to the thread after that or it is only going to get more derailed. Locking this as requested.