Thank you. I actually have another question also. This happened to me recently. The woman that i'm talking to and I were going out and she was deciding on what to wear. She held up two dresses a red one and a black one and asks "which should I wear tonight?" I said the black one and she said she prefers the red one, so I said "ok wear the red one" but she says "you obviously don't like it, you said wear the black one before". Is there a right answer to this? Cause it's like banging your head against a brick wall. I don't really care what color she wears.
LOL you poor soul. See your first mistake is you should ask her what one she prefers because then she will give you the answer and the reason as to why she doesn’t want to wear it. So from there what you do is reassure her the issues she has doesn’t matter. I.e I like the red the one but I think I’ll look fat Reply: No you won’t because you’re always beautiful in my eyes Tbh tho with some women you honestly can’t win. Like they will always just argue against you or say won’t believe your reassurance :/ sad I know but if that’s the case just leave her to it. Sit in another room don’t give your opinion you’re wrong either way (these women are rare tho ngl) Some women as well use this as an opportunity to like test you and fish for compliments (you know the cliche I look fat in this lol) . So like if I held up a revealing top and a regular top to someone and I said what should i wear. I can make my own assumptions on the person depending on their choice(I could be totally wrong but that’s women for you)
You could lie by saying you have a partner or you’re seeing someone. Say you strictly want to stay as Work colleagues as you don’t like mixing Work and outside life. If the advances are too much and they make you feel uncomfortable, report them and the situation to management because you should not feel uncomfortable in the workplace,