(These are just my insights and sorry if my grammar is wrong, and im not a good writer but it tells me to write. Feel free to comment if you have insights) Most of us here fell in love and had been in a relationship. And usually, the sweet taste of being in a relationship turns into a bitter one. Those smiles turn into tears, and sadness coated both heart. There are various of reasons why relationships ended sad and devastating. Every couple has their own story to tell. But,as they say, you're only hurt by someone you loved, because you wouldn't feel hurt if you didn't love that person. Now, what i'm concerned about is, why most of us girls put all the blame on boys, we would even label them as cheaters and generalize it. We even talk like we haven't hurt one boy's feelings. But of course, some boys really hurt girls hard. Many girls cried because of boys. But, boys cry too because of girls. There are some girls who are cheaters as well, it isn't just boys. I don't want to be insenstive of the broken heart's feelings but both parties does the same. Some boys cheat and some girls cheat as well. Not all boys are playboys and not all girls are cheaters. Not only boys are the ones who caused pain but girls as well. Girls, don't think that we are just the one who are devastated most. Both have feelings, we are all human. Girls and boys,can feel the same pain. Really, both love each other and makes efforts. But when time comes, it shouldn't be just to be blamed on one side. Recall all the things you have done too. Both are to be blamed. Let's not be close minded to the idea that boys are like this, and girls are like that. Isn't it wonderful to just love even though we know that it may not last forever? Let time be the one who decide. And when you're still with your partner, just love each other. To those who are heartbroken, there still many people out there. He or she will find you in the right time, according to God's plan. Don't fear to love again because loving is the best gift even though it will hurt you too.Loving bring happiness, but sadness as well. But in that sadness, we may find what matters most. But don't worry,sadness will turn into joy as long as we love. Both does mistakes, both hurted each other, both caused the pain, but i know, both gave the happiness of loving in a while. Boys and girls, ladies and gentleman, we are both to be blamed.