So recently I lost alot of people due to me lying. I faked my identity because I was ashamed of what I had looked like. What I did is something I'm not proud about, because I've hurt many people on the way because of my selfishness. When I did start playing this game I'd never thought once what I'd do. One stupid mistake resulted in 3-4 years of lying which just kept getting built up. When one person did find out I wanted to make things right but I didn't know how to. I thought that when I was ready I would eventually tell them all because I had owed it too them. I only cared about my self and didnt care about others feelings. In the process of lying I lost the girl I love. Seeing her go hurt to the point where everything just became dull. It made me realise life is something that can turn for the worst or better in a matter of hours. I regret what I've done. I regret the choices I've made over the years. And I regret lying and hurting the ones close to me. Never once did I think my actions would have such consequences. I'm sorry to those three people who meant alot in my life ever since I met them. I don't regret meeting yous but I do regret not telling you the truth. All my life I've tried making others happy. But I couldn't make you three happy. I'm sorry for everything. I hope if you do read this, that I'm very sorry and nor will I ever think about doing this again. - Rashad x
Hey at least you came out & said it It's not easy, but it is the right thing to do. It'll fade eventually; I'm sure no one will hold a grudge against you forever ❤️
I'm sure the three he did this to definitely will hold it against him forever. There is a lot of manipulation and lies he has left out.
There's also the group of people that considered him a friend that were also lied to as well. This isn't making things better but worse. Some may forgive but others that have stayed up talking to, comforting, and offering advice will not easily forgive if at all. You can get time back that was wasted on lies.
Yes lying is unhealthy but at least the guy finally has the courage to own up to his mistakes. I'm sure everyone's lied once in their lifetime. It isn't a good feeling but at the end of the day, it matters whether or not the person decide to finally put a stop to all of it so cut the guy some slack people
If you were honest about your personality given the nature of the internet usually they will forgive you since that is what theycsee more than anything else
Perhaps... While it isn't great to lie and all that, people have their reasons. Whether it was right to lie is well...debatable. A whole lot of ppl have lied who never man up to it. I know people who have, some who I used to be very close with. I don't say anything about it, but I'm aware of it. At least he said something.
Being one of the 3 people who he is including yea I can understand that people lie but to do what all he did is unforgivable. This whole "apology" is what he does, once you apologize and continue to do what you do nothing changes they become pointless words.
Yeah, I see where you are coming from. I guess I kinda see both sides. I'm sorry that it happened to you & the other two. Makes you question how much you really can believe about people who mean something to you @PIMD ? why does it keep cutting off mid sentence?