Topic: Cheaters

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by *moogi (03), Jun 4, 2015.

  1. If your long term partner cheated on you.. Would you forgive them? Please give a reason for your answer.
     
  2. No. Move on.
     
  3. No. If they cheat once, they will cheat again.
     
  4. Some people believe in second chances some people believe once a cheater always a cheater does this apply to everyone?

    What if you're in a marriage ?
     
  5. Depends on the situation I guess, but 99% of the time no. Shouldn't be with someone that didn't care enough about hurting you that they'd do that

    I don't think being married means you're any more obligated to be with someone who doesn't deserve you and that doesn't treat you the way you deserve...
     
  6. Deps on how long you were together. Also how long the cheating has been going on. If it was a 1 time thing and they came to you about it maybe give them a chance. Bcuz its not like they had to tell you.


    If the cheating was going on for awhile & you had caught them... No let them go. Bcuz they were trying to hide it & didn't care.
     
  7. Yes. If your partner cheats just ask for a pass for yourself to cheat and make things even.
     
  8. I'll wave divorce papers in their face.
     
  9. I'm not sure of what I think about getting even lol
     
  10. Next question : why do some women stay in the relationship if it's not going well?
     
  11. if its ober this game why would even expect them to be loyal?
     
  12. They say it's too hard to leave and that they still deeply love their partner despite the problems. Or they're afraid their partner will hunt then down and kill them if they leave.
     
  13. This is a stupid argument.
     
  14. Alexis can you elaborate?

    Also this is about rl... LoL
     
  15. Savage af
     
  16. I know this is about real life. The reason why that is a stupid argument is because cheating is just a choice. Sure, someone people will continue to cheat after they do it once and say they won't ever again, but some people are actually able to learn from their mistakes and pursue a healthy and faithful relationship.
     
  17. The rl comment was at Jesus >.<

    Also I like your point :)
     
  18. Hell nah. If they feel like they have to cheat then clearly something is wrong with the relationship. :)
     
  19. You are the side chick
     
  20. Because some have low self-esteem and believe that once they leave their partner they won't find anyone else. So they'd rather suffer in a bad relationship than suffer alone.