I'm sincerely curious on what u think about this scenario. There's this very shy girl on my bus, and I have been under the impression that tension has been building up between us since the beginning of the year. I was never very interested, but she has done many things to make me think that she is. I was never interested simply because I feel I could do much better than her, but I figure I'd get to know her just a bit and give it a shot, cuz what the hell, her shyness has been making me curious, I guess. So I texted her one night (because I couldn't ask her in person I swear, long story, not me being a wimp) and asked her to this dance. She declined, but she was SO sorry. This was weird to me, because she didn't give a specific reason for why she couldn't go, (and I didn't ask because I'm not nosy) but she was sooo super apologetic and she wouldn't stop texting me for the next two hours. So I dont know what to take from that conversation. Is she actually busy? Or did I plainly and simply get rejected? Anyway, ever since i asked her, things have been awkward... Like not the good awkward like they used to be before I asked her, but she just seems less interested in me than she was for the whole year before I asked her to a dance. And fyi, not to be cocky or anything, but I am very confident I could do better than her (just judging by our appearances) but the thought that I cant have her has just been making me want her SO much more than I did before the asking her. I mean I didn't ask her to the dance because I actually wanted to date her. I just wanted to just get to know her better
Sorry, I was trying to be as modest as I could while still being realistic, just to give u a feel of what this is actually like ..
She rejected me. Let me come up with all these alternate theories that suggest she isn't just not interested.
DAMN HOMIE. These females tearing you a new bootyhole. Careful with the next words you say or we'll all be saying R.I.P op.
Long story short she just doesn't want you and the only reason things feel awkward now is bc you made it seem like her being nice to you is leading you on, when you're probably just thirsty asf for attention And egotistical
But yeah she's not interested. Doesn't make her a lesbian. Still trying to figure out how that comes into play. Plus maybe you're the one making it feel super awkward. But if I was guessing you're saying you're hawt and she's not. And just cause you're hawt and she rejected you. You automatically thinks she's les.
Nah nah. Y'all wrong. She wants you brother.take what's yours, CLAIM HER. Trust your uncle cholo. He knows these things.
^ taking his advice will either get her to A) beat the hell out of you B)get a brother/guy friend to beat the hell out of you C) get a restraining order Depends on what kind of person she is ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Only question...why base it on appearances? I stopped reading as soon as it said 'based on our appearances' why not get to know her better and not judge based on looks? It would probably go a lot smoother if you at least tried to be her friend first.