For people who can't see pictures: "If you love someone and you break up, where does the love go?" - Carrie Bradshaw, from Sex and the City. Where does it go? Do you ever truly stop loving them, or do those feelings always remain somewhere deep in your broken heart? Respond below
When you love someone your brain triggers several things and releases chemicals that go into your stomach hence the expression "butterflies in your tummy". When the love goes away, your brain realizes it no longer has to make these chemicals but it does so slowly because people keep thinking about said person. The longer you keep in these chemicals the more you feel certain symptoms like heartache and the shortness of breath and tears. Most people feel like not eating. You could never be more wrong! If you are feeling these, the best way is to eat and poop all those chemicals out of your body. It takes maybe a week or a month or more depending on brain speed and wellbeing to completely rid the body of these chemicals. In conclusion, love goes into the toilet.
The love always remains...but it goes with the person that you love....making your heart ache when they don't love you back
I think if you truly love someone you never stop loving them, there's always a piece of your heart for that person. Doesn't necessarily mean that you want to be with them romantically anymore but just that you still care deeply for them. Situations in life can sometimes make it hard to maintain romantic relationships even if you love that person and sometimes leaving them for the betterment of yourself as well as them is the best thing to do. Doesn't mean you love them any less just that it wasn't the right time...
love goes into the toilet? That's got to be the disturbing I've ever heard. But I do agree love has lot to do with the brain through I process which I care nothing about. I'm not a scientist, neurologist, or even all that intelligent. I'm a just a woman with a lot of feelings. And I for one don't think you can flush those feelings down the toilet. I think that a lot of the times the feeling does wear off after a break up, but like Cherry said if you really love them incredibly deeply sometimes it doesn't just go away, sometimes it never goes away. And maybe it's just a feeling of attachment they've left on your soul like an imprint. You're forever changed by the relationship and no one can replace them.
What's love but a secondhand emotion? If you really loved someone you would fight to keep them, unless letting them go is the best thing to do. Breaking up is just giving up and being defeated by the trials of relationships and then you grow old and bitter because you lost to love