Hi. this is kind of a weird place to post something like this but I don't know where else to go. I'm having issues with the guys. I'm really shy and a little overweight and none of the guys seem to notice me and the once that do are total jerks. I'm really at my wits end. I don't want to die alone so my question is; should I become a lesbian? I mean I feel more comfortable around other women so maybe I should pursue some of my girlfriends in a romantic way. What do you all think?
Not if you're not attracted to girls... ? Get in the gym, and learn to talk to people. Say at least something to someone you don't know , everyday. Even if it's just "hi" or "nice [shoes/shirt/fill in the blank]"
The right person will appear when you least expect it. Who cares what others think about what you look like. Don't ever settle for anything just cause you are lonely. The right one won't care what you look like or if you are shy. They will like you for who you are. Don't give up hun. Love will happen