Why is it so hard to maintain a imperfect perfect relationship. ..like I just got in a heated argument with my boyfriend cuz he thought he made a great but turned out to be a stupid as decision. Then he got mad when I told him about himself and now the newly dishes and glass cups n porcelain china is GONE! ON THE FLOOR SHATTERED.! CRUNCHY. ! Like I duno what tf to do. They said two opposites attract but why is it so damn hard.....like is it so difficult to tell him that you can't do this NOW because it'll affect you LATER. I'm not trying to dictate him or be his pitbull but he thinks for now and I always think for the future.So when he spends too much n I tell him he gets mad n starts shattering stuff. N now I don't have dishes to eat. Forks are bent. There's no cups in the house...ugh.someone please tell me where did I go wrong.
That whole opposites attract stuff is crap. There have to be underlying similarities that make the foundation of ur rship. He sounds very immature. I agree communication is obv really important, but if theres little maturity there then u will be right back where u r now :/
Sounds like he has anger issues also but doesn't like feeling as he is being told what to do. I don't know how you approach him on the situation at hand. But it does seem like you are not communicating very well with eachother. If he is that out of hand I would try talking about issues in a different way with him. Find common ground you both can be comfortable with while living with eachother. Only last thing you can do if you can't find that common ground sounds like a small break or space is needed between you both until things can calm down. Then explain you are not trying to tell him no just bcuz of not wanting him to do things but you are thinking of the both of you in the long run. So you would like to calmly talk about your problems and work on them together.
Well if you live near your parents try to get them over your house and set them down with your bf and have a talk, maybe it will clear thing up a bit. Good luck if you need help follow me and I'll help all of you