Why is it so hard to maintain a imperfect perfect relationship. ..like I just got in a heated argument with my boyfriend cuz he thought he made a great but turned out to be a stupid as decision. Then he got mad when I told him about himself and now the newly dishes and glass cups n porcelain china is GONE! ON THE FLOOR SHATTERED.! CRUNCHY. ! Like I duno what tf to do. They said two opposites attract but why is it so damn hard.....like is it so difficult to tell him that you can't do this NOW because it'll affect you LATER. I'm not trying to dictate him or be his pitbull but he thinks for now and I always think for the future.So when he spends too much n I tell him he gets mad n starts shattering stuff. N now I don't have dishes to eat. Forks are bent. There's no cups in the house...ugh.someone please tell me where did I go wrong.