This is not a thread for those with weak minded judgmental people or people who hate same gender love. So if you are them get off my thread I need opinions on what I should do. I have been crying my eyes out since Monday So I have my boyfriend n we began dating on my birthday last year.march 4th 2013. In the beginning it was great. I took him out on dates. I gave him things he needed for school.i taught him how to drive. Took him to get his license. I even spent his birthday with him even when his friends and family didnt. I spend so much time with him and I called out work because he was in a car accident. Now he's moved in with me but now he's acting different. He's constantly on his phone. I asked him n he just says it's nobody. He doesn't send me good morning texts anymore and when we sleep together it's distanced...I have been crying my eyes because I love him so much it hurts n I feel like another man took my place. I don't want to say he's cheating but what can I think. He doesn't act the same and I don't know what too do. I've spent my everything in him. N whenever I think of breaking up it fucking hurts..it hurts so bad i sit in my bathroom n cry. I don't want to let him go but i don't know what else to do. Help me please...
Typical unappreciated behavior. You do too much for him so you became a parent more than a bf or significant other. I have a friend thatll bend over backward for her man bit e does sorta the same thing. Id say confront him seriously and be like "i dont like this shape the fuck up or im gone" if he does great. If not you gotta do whats best for you
Easy you cant love someone else before you love yourself. What i mean by that is do ou wanna keep living like this just cause you may or may no lose your relationship? If so then dont say anything if not then its time he knew how you felt about it
Just talk about it with him and stop making a huge drama. Not like anyone here knows you in real to tell you "omg he is cheatin on ya, gurl". If you are boring, then probably it is that.
Awwww NILLA boo just ask him! There's nothing wrong with conversation and asking! If you can't talk it out directly, slip him a typed out letter where he will see it.
Just say and ask what u have to say. If you become a sad mess so be it. If he loves you that shouldn't be an issue. The issue should be what you are saying and the fact that you are upset about it.
Huni bottling it up will do no good. A good relationship involves communication. He's mean't to be your other half so you should be able to talk about things that are bothering you. Perhaps something is on he's mind. Don't be afraid of a little confrontation. A mini arugment does no harm. Your in an adults relationship. It doesnt necessecarily mean it'll be over. It shows where your coming from and what you think/want. And it'll give you's something to work on to make progress for a better relationship. But the way i see it. If you don't say something. Then it's going to make you feel worse. You'll get more upset and more paranoid. If you do talk. Then it will go one of 2 ways. A) he'll listen and think about what you've said and fingers crossed things will go back to normal. Or B) sorry to say. but you'll go your seperate ways. Because theres no point stayin in an unhealthy relationship where your not happy. But i promise. A heart will eventually heal. I can guarantee that. Talk to him. Good luck.
:/ ive seen this before with a friend of mine, its seems its got to the point where he takes you for granted and doesnt appreciate fully the things that you do for him, by no means does that mean he doesnt love you, it just seems your relationship has been set up where you give more than he does when in reality it should be equal. The best thing to do is to talk to him, youll dread the moment but afterwards itll feel like a big load off your shoulders that you got how you felt in the open
Tell him what you think. Theres a point where couples forget to be sweet to each other. they are too comfortable and don't want to make an effort. Like a boring stagnant la la la phase. So instead of crying why not try treating him special again and tell him you want him To treat you special too. Just like falling in love all over again.
I understand this. I don't necessarily think he may be cheating he may just not appreciate you anymore. And if that's the case then leave him. Because you can't build a relationship giving everything and him giving nothing in return.
you spoiled him too much sometimes you need to play hard to get so the guy can be more interested in you the more mysterious you seem the more the guys spends time with you anyhow just confront him if he trully loves you he will do what is right