ARE YOU REALLY, YOU?

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by p1ckl3s, Mar 14, 2014.

  1. Might as well put the TLDR at the start, this ones long. Are you yourself (online/offline) or an alter ego; and do you know when you are who?

    The way in which people behave always fascinates me. Perhaps it's because several individuals are typically not self-aware of themselves. Usually, these individuals later step back and think..."Well, fuck. Who was I?"

    Self-awareness can be defined as in control of your own physical actions and oral communication (on or offline) in a particular setting. At least, that's my own interpretation on the term.

    Self-awareness and persona are interconnected with one another. I tend to find a lot of people change between their selves and their alter egos as a coping method.

    Ever notice that one person/ user who displays themselves one way (in an inbox or on forums) and is completely different in it's opposite? Yeah, me too.

    However, sometimes I don't. Sometimes people are self-aware and are in a harmonizing tune with themselves. They keep their "character" and play it the entire time. Not even an insult can switch them to their self or alter ego.

    Food for thought: online and offline (as in real life), which person are you? Yourself, or your alter ego? Do you tend to change back an forth? And why/ what for? Is there a way to tell who's themselves on forums or their alter ego?

    For me, it's like a pendulum. The ball swings both ways.
     
  2. I'm different sometimes. In rl, I don't insult nearly as many people.
     
  3. I read to TL/DR, scrolled down decided to agree with you then posted this
     
  4. Too much to read
     
  5. I'm me all the time. I just don't have people telling me "omg don't say that!" when I'm online saying what's on my mind.
     
  6. ^ that's why the TLDR is at the beginning. You're dumb.
     
  7. I ask myself the same question every night before I go to sleep ?
     
  8. Its the internet. People think with their anonymousity (?) They can do/say whatever they want. Others feel the need to be popular online because they are betas/10.

    Now to answer the question. I'm moreborbless the same online as in IRL real life. I say random things GS to my friends, be it funny or not and whatnot.
     
  9. I don't speak english often in rl.
    And I have to change keyboards when I'm in game..
    フリーダム〜!!!
     
  10. Though in more confrontational online (I think) since I actually have time to think about what to say lololol
     
  11. Did you just swear in mandarin? That's awesome.
     
  12. But personality wise I'm pretty sure I'm the same.
     
  13. No. I didn't swear.
    And I'm japanese ironically
     
  14. I act differently at times but I have different levels of comfort with different people. Some I'm just mean to and that means I don't like you. Some I'm nice to, that means I'm comfortable but I don't trust you enough. And with very few people I'm me and me is weird and nasty and really funny... I just don't expose myself to everyone. It's my own defense mechanism.
     
  15. I'm the same, on and offline.
     
  16. Eh, it's 50/50 with me. On this game, I deal with way dumber/crazier people than I do in real life. I guess their alter ego is a complete nutcase! :p But I always speak my mind. I just don't have much of a filter. :)
     
  17. Some people might be in denial.... ️
     
  18. I not even completely sure who I am anyways so I guess I'm not as shy when I'm online
     
  19. No, no denial. This is a social app. I don't see how I could talk to people on here and be friends if I'm not honest. I don't like fake people so I try not to be one. Simple really. But, I'm older than a lot if people on here too. That doesn't make me more mature, I just don't feel like coming up with a weird alter ego. Plus, I have a crap memory.