I never realize how much I love a guy until I find myself looking at him and smiling like a bloody idiot. I start to feel my heart more than ever and hear it beat much stronger. This is the classic period of falling in love that we are all aware of, right? That’s why I do not intent to describe what love brings to our poor bodies. I’m more likely to remark a few reasons to stay away from the love thing. Mostly about making men our only hope. Here we go; “Aww you’re like a delicious drug to me” No, he’s definitely not. It’s your sensible, pretty heart saying these. Your heart is ready to melt easily. Paying attention to these thoughts would ruin your nerves. Shrinks in clinics aren’t interested in such addictions, I assume. If you don’t want to become frightened later on, don’t get addicted to him. This is the first rule that saves your life. “I couldn’t be happier with you. Baby, you mean so much to me” Yes, say this to him and make him cocky quickly in a second!! Keep your feelings to yourself; stop sharing your deepest feelings. Remember, even if he gives you heart shaped chocolates, it’s not the key to your happiness. Let’s say he’s only an extinguisher that can put out your fire for a short while. Just that simple. Don’t you dare say “our hearts became one” It’s only a fabulous dream we women have. There’s no such a thing when it comes to men. For them, there are at least 3,4 hearts that never become one. While you’re drowning in your dreams, there are women out there who are waiting for your so-called man. As you’re going blind of love, you can’t notice how those women compensate for you. After all, you start to blame yourself thinking you were never good enough. No matter what you said or what you did. What a mess! However you want to beg him crazily to choose you over others, you don’t. Therefore it is humiliating. In the following days you meet a new feeling: "Hello to disappointment!" Disappointment is exhausting and worse than everything else. You don’t deserve to feel that way. Men tend to fall in love (not ‘love’ actually) quickly with you and with someone else...so wake up! Don’t get fooled by tricks. *For the ones who still insist on keeping a man tightly connected to themselves: You’d better start showing some of your collection of knives from the start. It is not guaranteed but just in case… Passion
I disagree.. you can't say ALL men are like that. I mean do you expect a man to keep trying and Keep loving Someone even after that person tells the man to Go away or that she doesn't like him? Of course you don't. You'll say that he's only trying so hard for her body. Yeah the majority of men just wanna do it like they do on the discovery channel but that doesn't mean ALL of them want that. Yes intercourse is fun. No not every man "loves" a woman for that. Men want love too. Things like these are making this world lose all of its love. So what if you break your heart? Every heard of the word "Hope"? I mean women have to admit too that everyday they pass by someone who would love them with all their heart and they ignore them.. Because materialism..attractiveness and popularity are things women also idol. If they always look towards hotshots or "super sexy" men before they even consider the innocent bystander who's trying to say Hi. They'll most likely end up with their hearts broken because why should that "amazing guy" love you when he can probably find someone better than you. Yes it hurts but that's the truth of it. There are problems with both genders.. not only men. And this is coming from a 17 year old. I have a soft heart and get hurt easily myself. Even down to pure depression.. no one is perfect but true love is achieved when you learn to love your partner's imperfections and accept them for who they are. Bottom line, we're all just stinking humans who feel too much.
Had to write that in a hurry.. ^ Couldn't poke all of the points and might or might not have spelling or grammer mistakes. :| And it might not even make sense. Hopefully it does though.
If a girl rejects the ways I show my love for her she's not worth my time. I'm the type of guy that likes to play around. Whether it be play fighting, chasing each other, messing with each other verbally, random out-of-nowhere fights where you end up wrecking the living room and on the floor laughing and out of breath. Spontaneous going out to random places, etc. if a girl is all lame and boring and doesnt wanna have fun and is rejecting my ways all the time she's a waste of my time. I dont like serious people that dont enjoy life and laugh. People that stick to the same routine every day. Have no sense of humor. Those are the people that I tend to stay away from. In a partner I look for girls who are not afraid to express themselves, express their love, is outgoing, etc. Someone that rejects me all the time is a complete waste of my time and I wouldn't want to spend even a day with them much less a life. I want to be the kind of guy that a girlfriend will love being around, that will want to spend their day with me above anything else, someone who will bring complete happiness to their life. Someone whom I will be the best thing about their life. Idk. I dont want a girl who rejects me, doesn't want to be around me, doesn't say she loves me, etc. all because of some "pride" thing. Idk. I'm just rambling and bored. I dont even know what the fuck I'm saying anymore. I started with this "idea" of what I wanted to say and after the first sentence I wrote absentmindedly. So to put it simple I disagree with the thread.