Most people on here know me pretty well. Only very very few know that I have an older brother whom I've only met once in my life (I was 5 years old). Well the older I got the more I wanted to find him. Every now and then I'd try and look for him, which was damn impossible. Well after almost 18 long years I have finally found him. As of right now I'm overwhelmed with emotions. Right now I'm asking myself should I write him and get to know him or just leave it. Hardest decision of my life right now......
No matter what anyone says on here, you will do what your gut feels is right. Follow your gut. If you really want to you should and will... I wish you luck! any situation like this is hard.
i kinda know how u r feeling. my mum abandonded me at birth. ive always wondered what it would b like 2 meet, if we look the same, who my father is etc
It is better to regret doing it than to always wonder what could have happened if you hadn't. Good luck, Wally.
Wally you have tried for so many years to find him to give up right at the end. You owe it to yourself to take this to the next level and reach out to him. No matter how it ends at least you won't always be wondering what might have happened.
To me the worst thing that one can do is not try, to be aware of what one wants and not give in to it, to spend years in silent hurt wondering if something could have materialized, and never know. Try it and see what happens. Who knows, he may have been asking himself the same questions that you. I regret things that I didn't do when the opportunity presented itself. good luck Wally