Put 1/3rd of a cup of hydrogen peroxide into 1 cup warm water and shake it around. Have your sis take a medicine dropper and put like 6 drops of it into your ear. Let it sit there about 10-15 min. Not hot water but just warm. You'll hear lil poping sounds as the peroxide eats the wax up. Then just turn your head over onto a wash rag or towel and let it drip out. Might need to do this for a few days but WONT damage ears like q-tips