It's hard to let your loved ones go when they die, but somehow they may not really go away. People die. We all know that; it's common knowledge. Death is something inevitable, something beyond our control. For all of these years, everbody knows that death is a part of our lives. However, it's still very hard to accept it. Recently, I met a woman, a young woman, who had lost the love of her life... Her best friend, her entire world. She is devastated. The worst thing is that, even though she might have a lot of nice people who care about her and try to comfort her as much as they can, she still feels terribly alone. I know that feeling too well. It hurts like a fist in your stomach, only it's endless and you can't control it at all. It's like death itself. It might go away someday, slowly, but it comes back whenever you think you've finally got rid of it. I lost a dear old friend of mine some time ago. I've recently lost another one who commited suicide taking some poison. Meanwhile, my close friend gave birth her first kid, just like the woman I met; she's pregnant too. I've got this feeling that somehow everything is connected. When someone dies, somebody else opens his (or her) eyes to the world. I kept thinking it's something casual, but I'm realizing I was wrong about it. People will stay forever in our hearts even they leave us, I said to this woman I've meantioned before. They live in our thoughts, in our prayers, in our songs too. And they might probably make room for another little life, who comes to this world with something that belongs to them. So they can stay with us for another while; at least until we'll have make room as well and fly away. I know it's hard to deal with death, but I want to hope and believe that our loved ones are still around in a way or another, even if they don't come back for good. Maybe it's a tiny hope, but it makes me go on and ease the pain. These words of mine are dedicated to my friends and everyone that's left us because they had a sickness , or they deliberately took poison. I love you guys, wherever you are and will be.
Awesome thread. Losing someone close to you is exactly like losing a part of you. It's like a big part of your heart just rotted and withered away, leaving a huge empty spot in your heart. Like you've lost a piece of your puzzle. And while you may find a puzzle piece to match that empty spot, it will never be as good as that missing piece.
Irem, amazing thread. I agree completely, I still talk to my ones who have passed like they're still in my life and I'm having a phone conversation, others think it's weird but I like to update them on my life...
Thanks for the support OldManInYourRoomAtNight and Jo. It's not weird Jo. Sometimes I talk with these people in my thoughts or with their pictures. Lot of people see their loved ones death every single day. I just wanted share my thought about it.