Cherry I'm not against her ether lol, my post is just linking how she agreed it's all choice, by giving example of choices lol
Everyone have problems. Life is fair. We all have this certain point in life when we just wanted to kill ourselves. Its our choice if we will face it or you know, avoid it. Its the matter of doing the right thing or the easy way out. Life is great. Life is fair. We choose what we want. We choose our course. We are the authors of our story and it will be a shame if you will kill the main character of your wonderful novel.
Lol go to sleep Hun On another point before I CHOOSE to go to work, it is OUR choice to try pointing out that it's OUR choice on the actions we take, not any one else's.
Hey, I found people of a reputable nature on PiMD. This isn't something that happens daily. I actually respect some of you now. Yay!!! BESTIES 4 LYF
Ok, these are my reasons for s-f: PART 1: In the first part of life, your dad/mum is drunk/high, beats you/constantly 'beats' you, emotionally, physically, they start crying at night. PART 2: The first few days at school are all right, but later, as people start to know you, they start to push you about, fuck you off, get you down again. PART 3: In my life this is the part of rape, I go out at night, I get hit, raped and stabbed, I don't remember it, this happens over 8 times in the next 3 years. PART 4: Now I am in court for the 8th times in as many months for self defence and defence of the weak, all easily won, emotional detachment from my body. PART 5: This is were the s-h starts, I am now in hospital again for being stabbed, in the leg, not seriously, but not nicely either.... PART 6: S-h starts to get a serious issue, start going to hospital on my own accord PART 7: Were I am now, trying to help people while I am failing to deal with my life This is why I can't stop hating myself and why I can't stop self harming, I hope this stops anyone who doubts me or thinks that it is a choice when it gets this deep into your system, It is not a choice for me, it is a way of life
I find this highly unbelievable but true or not, on the first place, you chose to cut. Now, its your habit and you are addicted to it Anyway, If you're in a hospital every now and then, they would have seen your scars and should have sent a psychologist in your way whether you like it or not, free or not.
Self harm is not a choice! you don't chose to be put in a situation that makes you do that! it's all psychological, the people who hurt you are the ones who chosen that life for you so please shut up if you have never been in this situation you don't know what it's like and probably never will
Please explain how you hurting yourself is not a choice. Did you hurt yourself? There you go. Pretty damn simple. The only reason you did it was because you decided to. It was your decision to do it. Your choice. Unless Darth Vader made you do it, it was your own choice. Get it? No one else did it. You did it. If I cut you, it wouldn't be self harm. Did someome point a gun to your head and forced you? No. Regardless if you get bullied or not, you decided to hurt yourself. Does that mean that not cutting yourself is not a choice? So then.... I have no control of my life? Deciding not to go to Walmart wasn't a choice I made? There was no other option and I was forced to do so given the circumstances? So then no one controls their own life? Damn. Mind fuck. ?