Am I the only one on here that is married? It seems like my marriage is useless pimd has become my only source of happiness and ally husband does it complain about me playing. I'm new and still trying to figure it all out but I love it. I wish I had someone who understood.
In two days, with stats of 28, this has become your only source of happiness? That is incredibly sad.
Maybe put the device down and spend some time with your husband? I'd be willing to bet that if pimd is your "only source of happiness" after a day or two, that you're using it to replace another game/app addiction. Your husband probably complains simply because you ignore him for your device. "We are as happy as we make up our minds to be." -Abraham Lincoln.
My marriage wasnt to great before I began playing this game I've stopped being so into other things and concentrated on my marriage but two I can't do it alone
Tell your husband if he doesn't get his act together...you will ditch his ass for a pimd boyfriend!!!
Communication is key in any relationship. If you're spending all of your time on your device, you're not any better than he is in the marriage. I'm engaged and have been for 4 months. My fiancé and I were suppose to get married in May, but we decided that we needed to work on being more open with one another (amongst many other issues in our relationship) before we marry. If you can't talk openly with your partner and you are finding ways to distract yourself from the marriage, you are both probably not mature enough to be in the marriage and might want to reconsider your values. However, I don't know the whole story, so don't let my opinion offend you. Communication is key. Be open with him and try to persuade him to be open with you and, for God's sake, pay attention to him when he DOES communicate with you. Like, he has OVBIOUSLY made it clear that he has a problem being out on the back burner for your smartphone. I had the same issue with my fiancé. She was ALWAYS on the phone. It took me WEEKS to make her realize that it was destroying our relationship because she was too involved in her phone to notice that she was hurting me. Communicate with your partner, listen to them, and find a solution and actually put it into action.
First piece of advice: Don't post on forums expecting wise marriage council. Second piece of advice: Don't post on forums expecting wise marriage council. Third piece of advice: if number 2 doesn't work, look to number 1. Best of luck to you.
I've been in a pretty serious relationship for 3 years and he means the absolute world to me. when I'm around him, the only time I get on here is to farm (two hits or more, whatevs, then done). not communicate or recruit or complete big parties. that way HE gets my time and affection. I do think that being married and living together is different, because you DO, as a couple, need your space and to do your own thing. however, that also means you need to spend time and do things AS A COUPLE. as for your marriage problems, it sounds like you may want to seek marriage counseling or sit down and talk about where you see this marriage going in the future. you can't "hate" each other forever! it's not healthy!