I have no idea why you got silence if you only said "Gay" as it's not censored, maybe the best option to do is to email the developers at: support@athinkingape.com And explain your situation,
?he was using 'gay' as an insult, therefore it is worthy of a silence. If he were just saying he was pretty and witty and gay = no issue. Using it in a negative way is against the tou.
Please do not come here to complain about a silence. Please refer to the RoC and ToU for further explanation about the message you received in your inbox as to why you were silenced.. Also, if you feel it was unjust please feel free to email support to have a further look into the matter. Thank you and Happy Friday!! support@athinkingape.com