This is the story of me coming out to my mother and other people about me being bisexual. It was a cool Friday afternoon, and I remember this day like if it was yesterday. My parents,sister, and me were getting ready to go to the movies and BBQ's. I was filled with excitement because I was going to see a movie that I had been die'in to see. As I am getting ready the only two things I can think about is the movie and this boy named Bryant. I had a big crush on him. As I am walking to the train station I get a text from him. I was anxious to text him back. So once we got in the movie theater I took my phone out and started texting him. We took our seats and the movie started. Even though the movie started I'm still texting him. Since I was texting in the movie theater my mother took my phone and started reading the messages. I was so scared. As she continues reading I felt embarrassed. It felt like my heart dropped into the bottom of my stomach. I could not believe she was reading the messages. Then she says Mom: “What the hell is this??” Me:“Nothin” Mom: “We will talk about this later!” I was so scared. All I could say was " Nothin" cause I was so embarrassed. I even started to panic. As I movie continues I could fell the sweat slowly moving down my face. I started to wish that my mother just forgot about the messages so we wouldn't have "The Talk". Every teenager is scared when their mother says “We need to talk” or “We will talk about this later”. I started shaking. I felt this lump in my throat and this shocking pain in my head. I start over thinking things and start thinking of lies to tell me mother so she wont find out about Bryant. Then the movie ends and I walk slowly out of the movie theater. When I got to the door I took a deep breath. Once I stepped my right foot out of the door, my mother started questioning me about the messages. Mom: “Who is the boy by the name of Bryant that you are texting on kîk?” Me: “That's not a boy, that's a girl. She is texting me through her brothers kîk account because she got locked out of her account.” That's was the lie that I was concocting to tell my mother, that it was a girl who uses her brothers account. But my mother didn't buy it so she said Mom: “Well tomorrow I'm going to your school to ask that girl is that her texting you!” Me: “She is gonna tell you the same thing I'm telling you right now.” Even though what I was saying wasn't true. All night I stayed up thinking about what will happen tomorrow. I felt so scared. 7 Hours Later… My mother was walking me to school to ask the girl if what Im saying true. Then my mother pulled to me to side of the corner and said Mom: “Are u telling the truth?” Me: “Yes” Mom: “don't lie or else I'm bringing your father.” When she said that I extremely panicked. If my Father knew I was bi or I was dating another boy, that would have been the day of my death. So I screamed in the middle of the street Me: “IM BISEXUAL” My mother looked at me in surprise. All she could say was " Really Daniel, Really??" I started crying cause I felt it was not fair to my mother to find out that her son is gay and the hardest thing in the world is to force somebody out of the closet(telling somebody your gay). It's hard to tell your mother that you are gay. That whole school day I was crying. While I'm in school at 2:00 my mother texted me and said " I love you for who u are"! That cheered me up a lot. After that I went home and my mother was waiting there to talk to me. She told me that she loves me and questioned me about the boy. I told her how much I had loved him and she was totally supportive. I started to cry because she was so supportive and I felt loved. When I cried, she cried and when I smiled, she smiled. I could talk to my mother about anything now. Soon I came out to my cousin and she was fine with it. Now me and her talk about our celebrity crushes. Three of them are: •Channing Tatum •Austin Mahone •Zayn Malik Four weeks after I came out to my cousin. I came out to my best friend. She said " Daniel I love u for u". Now we both share all our secrets together. Now I am open about my sexuality. Now I feel happy. I feel loved. And I feel free for the first time in my life. This is my coming out story!!!
Hi my name is red and for a long time I've been worried about my sexuality. I got babes all over me 24/7 and I don't know what to do. Hi I'm heterosexual
A friend of mine is bisexual, he told me his coming out story once. 'Mom, I'm bisexual.' 'Okay, don't get AIDS.' European mothers FTW.
I love it !!! An your really brave to post that on here with so many troles good for you !!! your a rolemodel for young men who are scared to come out.
I have yet to come out to my whole family. I did come out to my dad though. Dad: "How's your crush going?" Me: "Okay. I guess." Dad: "What's her name?" Me: -Looks horrified- "What?" Dad: -Repeats the question- Me: "Um...shouldn't you ask what's his name instead?" Dad: "Isn't it a girl?" Me: -Silent for a long time- "How did you know?" Dad: "I've known since you were in fourth grade." -.- Gee thanks dad for telling me earlier haha. But I can't tell my mom, or the rest of my family.
My coming out story to my best friend (a guy): Me: Oi, mate... I have to tell you something. Him: Hmm what? Me: well, Uh... Him: you love me more than a friend?! Me: *shocked* what?! No! Him: bummer. So what is it? Me: I'm... Uh... Well... Remember when I said I was dating someone? Him: yeah. Dont tell me you're pregnant! Me: ugh! You know I'm straight-edge! But... See... I won't get pregnant. Him: what do you mean? Me: I like... ugh... girls... and boys... Him: you're bisexual? Me: *nods scared* Him: oh okay. Just don't hit on my girlfriend okay? Me: huh? Is that all you're gonna say? Him: well what do you want me to say? You know I support gay rights. Youre stupid for being scare Li. not interesting but i was fidgeting like a moron. Thought he was gonna hate me 'cause we live in a Christian country.