If she says " Ima get him first and you'll have to see us date from now on" Go straight to his face and confess your love for him before she does
I have the same problem, but the roles are reversed. I like this guy, but my friend also like him and he likes her. For all of you saying if she's a good friend she'll deal with it, just no. If my friend and my crush start dating I'll still want to be both of their friends, but I would be really sad. A little bit heartbroken even. Remember- Boys may come and go, but friends are forever~
Friends are usually faker than flour in a powder bag. High school relationships RARELY last these days. Forget having a boyfriend and focus on your education. That's the problem with people- they're way too focused on finding "love" and losing their V card. Your education is something you'll have forever. Can't say the same for this guy.
My thought is.... Did you start liking him because your friend said she liked him? ......... That's how I read into it anyway.... some girls are like that... They only want what they can't have. If not, then really it's your own decision... Do you really want to take advice from people on an app?
You friend zoned the guy once. No offense here, but if you did it once, do you think that you won't do it again as soon as you date him? I mean honestly! I'm a guy who got rejected by this girl. She started liking me two years later. Her friend also did. After I found out, I said NO I DON'T STILL LIKE YOU. I would've went with her friend before her. The friend zone will make us hate you. Unless we are really forgiving. I've managed to be her friend. But other than that, I hope he's a good enough guy to give you a chance. Now you're at his mercy. Moral of this? I don't think you're the right choice. I understand how the guy would feel. But if you can prove to him that you're the right one, prove me wrong. But you should never start liking the guy you friend zoned. -.- You ever seen Just Friends?
Crushes don't last very long, but friends do if they're a true friend hope my advice on the second page helped!
To me it sounds like you like him because he likes you. You probably subconciously want to like a guy who likes you back. I suggest waiting it out.
I suggest you talk to your friend first! You don't want to rock that relationship... Some girls can be a little sensitive about issues like this (that's putting it mildly) Also, for future reference, maybe have less melodramatic subject title, saying BIG problem gave the impression of a crisis bigger than this is. Perhaps "ADVICE needed..," or something along those lines would be more appropriate. Good luck with your dilemma