So off topic but A few friends and I have been going back and forth about dating in our area for the past several weeks. Well this is the last email I received today and think I got schooled All right hon, so what your saying is a woman wants is a guy who's got his life together, has a job (which means he'll have lots of to buy ) a car, is good looking, and is Height Weight Proportional . Then, what does this lucky man get for being apart of the top 10% of his gene pool. A woman who'll take care of his needs? Sure, if that means sharing her hand lotion and leaving a copy of her cosmopolitan magazine. A women who'll cook and clean for him. Hmm wait, isn't that what maids and cooks are for. A woman who can have an intelletual conversation. Sure, if it's about the new realities series on tv. Sweetie, I could go on and on but lets face it, men like women how women like shoes. At first it's great, and their your prized possession. After awhile they start to fade and cause you callouses, yet in a pinch you really dont care what you put on. Then one day you wake up and realize you really can't stand putting your feet into those same old shoes day after day, and come to the conclusion you have one of three choices. 1) It's really past time to get a new pair of shoes, 2) You shut up and learn to live with the callouses or 3) Go without them and let those callouses heal. Noone said dating or living with someone is easy, it's always a give or take. Nothing will last forever, so don't ruin your chances of being happy with unrealistice expectations. Our time here is way too short. Just my opinion, peace out. If anyone has something to add, I'd love to hear it.