Ok so me and my friend were talking a fooling around at school one day and he randomly put paper up to my mouth so I can't breath. (he didn't know I couldn't breath) so when he puts down the paper I start gasping for air and say "I couldn't breath" and he says "wait you couldn't breath?.. Well then I would've done the world a favor" then I just laugh a lil cause I knew he was joking.. But in my mind I though "why would it be a favor? Would killing me do the world a favor?" So now I feel all depressed Should I be depressed? Sorry bout the waste of a thread Plz no hate
People sometimes say those kind of things because they think their funny like that. Don't listen to that type of negativity. Yes it did bother you but try to brush it off because its not true. If that is the first time he says that or doesn't usually say those things then okay keep him as a friend just let him know it bothers you. However, if he is constantly saying mean things like that then you don't need him in your life even if you have known him since kindergarten.
Ooh and the answer to your question: No you should not be depressed because of that one comment. Im not trying to undermine your feelings but depression is a disorder that seriously impairs your life. I don't think you are depressed. Perhaps, you are just really bothered by that comment because after all it came from someone you have known for a while.
Tell him tat what he said wasn't cool and that it really struck a cord, if he's a real friend he'll understand and won't mention it again but if he's not he'll call you sensitive or other derogatory words I don't feel like naming to which means you need a new friend. A friend isn't measured by how long you've known each other but by how much you know each other.. Hope I helped
I think your friend should be depressed for having such a sensitive wuss for his friend. Geez, it sounds like it was a joke and last time I checked, that's what friends do..... They joke with each other. If something so trivial like this makes you depressed, you're gonna be in for a rude awakening when you hit the real world, Kiddo.
And also think that maybe your friend felt bad, and didn't know what to say or how to react. And maybe the only way he knew how at the time was to make a joke. What he said didn't mean anything. Just remember he is a person and people make mistakes. And he tried to make his mistake (you not being able to breathe) right by telling a joke.
Your friend fits you. You waste forum space, thus you are a waste of space No just kidding On a serious note. If you have friends like that, my suggestion would be to tell him that his remark/joke was not funny. And/or tell him that you were hurt by the comment. And/or tell him that he wouldn't want you to do it to him. But if he doesn't apologize/feel guilty, it's time to find a better friend.