When people get depressed, about 70% of them cut themselves, the other 30% is a mix of suicide, drugs, drinking, etc. But i wanna know if cutting yourself will do anything to benefit, my sister recently committed suicide, she failed though, now she cuts herself. (don't think of this as a joke) I love my sister so much. She means the world to me, twins, together forever and such. Seeing her cut herself kills me, making me think if I should just do the same, but before I even touch a blade I want to know if it even does anything good for you. Ya I know, dumb question, but at this point I don't even know what to do. I've tried getting her to stop but she won't listen, and she cuts herself all because of what happened a couple nights ago. It all started with a prank. So my sister felt like pranking my aunt and uncle, so she got a mask and grabbed one of my old Airsoft guns (not loaded and no clip thing). She snuck into my uncles room and started shouting stuff like "gimme your money" and "don't make me shoot", finally I thought this prank had gone far enough I came up to her and told her to stop. I glanced at my uncle who had a bat, he immediately dropped it and told us he didnt realize it was her. I felt bad, both my aunt and uncle were super pale, my aunt talked to my sis for a while (I don't know what they said) an later showed my sis a report of a man killing his son who pulled a prank just like hers.. Here is what happened with the boy dying In the middle of the night a women called her brother whom lives right next door, telling him someone was breaking in. Enraged the man grabbed a shot gun and went next door, seeing the boy with a black mask on, the boy charged towards the man. Not realizing the boy was his own son ... he shot straight inti the boy, killing him, only then did he realize the boy was his son, dead. Though no one knows if he was actually attempting burglary or just a prank, my sister was so sad thinking she pulled such a mean prank she started cutting herself. My aunt and uncle couldn't convince her it was ok.. Recently she has been drinking (at 17..) and smoking. So I just don't know what to do.. Like I said, she means the world to me and I don't want her getting into trouble. True story. No hate please
Im crying already GBU u and ur sissy terry Prayers with u I want ur sister to realize that she shouldn't cut herself or be depressed because she has an a amazing life ahead of her and she just needs to live it out bein happy and enjoying herself she is an amazing person and she's to valuable to throw away her life like that Hugs, sugar
Ok. That's it. As soon as I get my hands on a gift card I'm changing my name back. Off topic, I know.
You need to tell your parents or some adult about what she is doing. She needs serious help that you can't give to her as her sister.
Awe TeddyBear I hope she will see that what she's doing is affecting you and will stop for the sake of your Love Respect for standing up for your sister and not giving up hope.
Add thousands of times being called Mean, or Meani. Or being insulted be noobs that think that I think I'm a tough *** or *****. And a million other things. It really gets to you after a while.
She also needs support. Just tell her something a smart person who made a terrible mistake once said. "I could take this as just time to give up and be what they expect and not care, but I just don't want to give up being who I was before" and she slowly became more of herself and found where she belongs. Just tell her she's not alone. I'm on her side
Then you need to tell a trusted adult. You aren't helping her by sitting by and watching her spiral out of control. You are just watching her digging herself an early grave. If you really love your sister, you will help her get help. Even if she gets mad at you about it, she will forgive you later.
Cheer up TeddyBear. As long has you're there for her she's always protected. I would know from experience. I used to cut all the time, but my brother was there for me. Seeing how much it hurt him emotionally and physically, gave me the strength to stop. I haven't cut myself in 6 years. Don't give up hope! Remind her of how amazing she is as a person and tell her she's the most important person in your life. Love conquers all, and spreads hope into their eyes
How so? I'm not that good of a conversationalist, but if it means a lot to me, I'm speaking it from my heart.
You didn't mention doing anything to help her. You said you wanted to cut yourself because she cuts herself, which solves nothing. I never said you don't care about her. But you can't really help her the way she needs. A doctor or psychologist can. If she is struggling with depression, a medicine to regulate her serotonin levels can help, as can exercising, dietary changes, and talking with a psychologist/therapist. The best thing you can do is get her the help she needs and be there for her while she recovers.