advice please

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by *Vampgirl01 (01), Sep 11, 2012.

  1. So I want to ask a friend of mine out... But idk if he likes me and I'm kinda nervous... What's some advice to get through asking him and maybe some on how to ask him out cuz im not that good at asking guys out... Please help!
     
  2. Just Be Yourself Around Him And When You Feel As Though Its Alright Ask Him Out You'll Be Okaii 
     
  3. Well, you should just keep hinting at it and always ask him to hang out and what not. Or if you want to be a really ballsy girl, just ask him up front and just ask him. Also, you can't lose anything by trying. The worst that could happen is you get a "no." That's not so bad
     
  4. Ok... Thanks... And I am myself around him... I've tried hinting at it but I get nervous... I'll try asking him soon and see what he says... If he says no then ill still be his friend... I just hope he says yes cuz a couple weeks ago I had my heart broken when the guy I was with broke up with me for no reason...
     
  5. Re: advice please

    Maybe u should take a little break from dating if u just went through a break up? Thats just my opinion tho good luck
     
  6. When I'm not with someone my grades go downhill and Im always miserable... That's why I want to try and get a friend that I know won't hurt me
     
  7. Actually, that's very bad. That means you constantly depend on someone else and that's called vulnerability. My advice? Ask him out straight up or learn to find joy in being single. Because you shouldn't blame your troubles on being single.
     
  8. I agree with Adam the only one u can always count on in life is ur self, if u can't count on ur self alone then don't just jump into a relationship to run away from that problem. Not saying that that's what ur doin but I think ur relationships would be easier when that not a problem anymore
     
  9. I'm not jumping into relationships... And yeah... I do feel better in a relationship cuz I feel unloved at home... Um not treated like a daughter at my moms.... I just clean everything and cook here.... I'm only treated as a daughter when we go places so... And at my dads I have all my family on that side our there and I can be myself and all... I'm happyer in a relationship cuz I have someone who cares about me and I know it.... My life is hard... And I don't depend on relationships... I just don't want to go through life miserable... Isn't that understandable?
     
  10. I can see your point, but don't rush into a relationship. You may end up doing something you regret. Become close friends with someone.
    You could even find a girl that you can get close with. Someone you wouldn't date, but that could help you through the tough times.
     
  11. A good friend is enough
     
  12. Just send a text message: let's go for coffee!

    Why stressing so much? He's just a friend your inviting for coffee... Whatever will be, will be!

     
  13. I'm a dude, I love gum. This means boys love gum. Just lure him with gum and you'll get him.
    And my logic isn't weird at all.
     
  14.  yeah... Legit...
     
  15. Well I had a friend help me and I asked him out this morning... We aren't going to rush it or anything... But we r going out now so... He doesn't want to hurt me.... And he actually has a crush on me as well so... :3