I wasn't actually saying you are upset. I'm saying that nobody can tell if somebody is upset through a forum post. :| I guess you completely missed that.
I'll use jopo's last post as an example. Jopo, those people saw your reaction and just KNEW you were mad. They can tell better than you can, don't you know? Now that just sounds silly.
Lol. Well, I'm sorry for not explaining things in the first place. I never expected there to be an argument on my thread. Lol. I'm not 'slamming' my father. I guess. I have reason to do so... But then again, it's my fault for not sharing why, lmao. But if you really have to know, it started a month ago when my mom called my dad to want to send me to his house. I was in severe depression and I wouldn't speak to anyone, and I didn't eat for days. I argued with my mom and she decided to call my dad, and I overheard their conversation. My dad called me a nuisance and that I was a problem for his 'family' and wife, and that whatever disorder I have, my mom should be the one to take care of it herself. Then he hung up on her. I got pissed. I get that he has a wife, but I'm his first child in his first marriage. I don't want all of his attention, but for God's sake I'm his Goddamn daughter. :| I kept ignoring him. I'm just a stubborn person. And so, last night, he called me, screamed at me for not speaking to him, said that he was my father and I should 'fucking listen to him because he's my daaaaaaadddddd *insert dinosaur rawr here*'. This isn't the exact first time he's been a fucking douche. I'm tired of having to run to my mom for help and I'm tired of having him lie to my face. He calls me an idiot once, and then lies and says that I'm smart three seconds later. I don't want to smile, and then frown, and then get discouraged because my *insert cuss word here* of a father keeps putting me down. Hah. I guess that's not really enough detail, but I'm not too comfortable giving away too much info here. Sorry again if I pissed any of you off. I'm not bothered by the argument, or anything at all. I apologize for making this kind of thread without releasing much detail. XD
To be honest, I'm highly insecure and I doubt people can actually relate to my 'issue'. So I'm bringing it to forums. Honestly, I want to say that if this thread really bothers you then you shouldn't read it... I mean that non-offensively, of course.
Parents are the best gift that one could wish for ... Something from your side or anything would have made him like that !! Talk to him n sort out !! If it doesnt work god has given you two legs,hands n everything , go n live ur way n show him And an advice dont bash ur parents plz
Parents are the best gift you can wish for? Maybe for you, but not for me. I live in fear of what my dad will do to both my mom and I. He doesn't even fucking pay for my tuition fees and he demands respect from me when he can't even remember my fucking birthday! What Danzo said. I'm really pissed at my father. He's my dad and there's a tiny thread connecting him to me, which is love for a parent. I can't sever that tie no matter how much I want to, but other than that I don't give a crap.
Well by the sounds of it you at least have a decent sounding relationship with your mother. If he really bugs you that bad ask your mother to fight for full custody of you and then the only way he can see you is if he calls and says, "Hey want to visit with me?" or some stupid shizz. After my mom passed away my father and I fought a lot and it took my father and I over 20 years to become some what civil to each other. It took him a while to realize that I didn't need him as much as he assumed I did. Also sometimes when a parent comes into a situation like a custody battle they then finally realize just how important you are to them. I'm not saying he doesn't think your un-important to him, like you stated I do not know your situation, buy from what I read it does sound like he os taking your love for granted. I just hope that things work out for you in the end, good luck.