Do you believe you should change yourself for another person? I feel myself slowly becoming a weaker girl just by talking to him. I say one thing and he goes crazy on me. I really don't know what to do. What would you do if you didn't really want to loose that person?
I think that you should try to keep as much as possibly you as possible. Don't go and completely change yourself for another person. Try trying new things, instead of trying things you know. Changing your self a little bit is ok, and even good to do sometimes. Just don't go full-out with it. MEJ_7
No joking? No playing hide and seek? No discussing old Spongebob reruns? No skinny dipping? That's horrid. Don't change that much. No. Just no.
._. depends on the change... You should never feel weak though, you must have the SASUKE CONFIDENCE!
If the person is way too serious, and you feel like it's no fun around them, here's my advice, drop him. Then kick him. Or change yourself a bit, but also try and change him.
^.^ If I were in your shoes, i'd say this: Bitch, you can accept me for who I am, or we can break up.
LOL, dude. If you can't make jokes around him, he needs a good kick in the pants. Maybe he likes that kind of stuff. Tell him to pick one.
He will not change. I tried! I like joking around. I'm not immature but I'm not a buzz kill! I like talking about Spongebob and goofing around!
I mean, it'd be different if they didn't flip shit every time you tried to be funny or just chill and chuckle. But every time... Too much. If you did that, you'd be like... Okay. Think Transformers. The second one. Optimus Prime was chill. But I always tuned his ass out because he was monotone and boring. But whenever the twins talked... Love. Essentially, if he's that...blahskees, just talk to him about it, discuss, and see where it goes from there. Maybe he doesn't realize he's doing it. Or maybe he's a control freak or some shit. And you like talking about Spongebob? OMJ. I. Love. You.
Lol. I love you guys! Thanks for making me feel better. The guy is just a friend. He wants to go out but I just can't do that! Not with him acting like that. I want someone fun and loves to joke around a little.