Okay, I know what you're thinking! This is such a useless thread that only talks about love. Well, I really have no idea but I just wanted to make a guide. Well it's not a guide really... I don't really know what it's called. This is dedicated to my best friend who just got out of a rough relationship and still can't forget the guy. Tia, this is for you. So please no HATE You could also add some ways of forgetting him/her! ----------- HI! Have you just gotten out of a rough relationship...? Have you forgotten him/her? Well, if you answered yes on the first question and no on the second one, this is the right guide for you! First, I'd like to introduce myself! I'm Sky~ and I'll be touring you today. So... Second... Back to the topic! Based on my experience, I got out of a three years relationship a year ago, and guess what...? I've moved on! Of course I love him, at first I was crying rivers! But then, since I stood strong and looked at the positive side, I got through it! It's not that I don't love him anymore, he'll be forever in my heart since he's my first love. But I can't keep hanging on to the past. It's BAD. •How did you move on, Sky? A: Well, first... I cried until I was feeling okay! Then, my mother said to eat chocolates because sweets can make you feel better, and it really helped! But please! Not too much! •Was it hard? A: Honestly, it was really ******* hard! HAHAHA. But you know... Try to mingle with friends. Call them and hang out! REMEMBER! Refrain from talking about "love". That's what I did. Well there were times when it slipped and I couldn't help but cry. But they were just there, for me. •What if he wants you back? A: Well, honey... If he was the one who broke you like cheated on you, DON'T. I won't say to follow your heart. Nuh-uh. Not on this thread. •But shouldn't we follow our hearts? A: It's up to you. But don't just go on and follow your heart without thinking a logical reason! For example, you are really in love with your bf that's a drug addict and can not stop, and then you have an opportunity to go study in an Ivy League school, yet because you really love him you stayed with him and you two have no future together. So... In the end you regret right? If he was a guy who has a capability to raise money, then that's fine. •What other tricks did you use to forget? A: Writing! Even if you're bad at it, try it. Just to let out your emotions. Not to keep them flowing in your heart! Music too~ not depressing music! Uh-uh! Music that can make you feel alive! For example, hardcore music! Just go with the song, it will let your anger out. ---- So enough with Q
Okay, I know what you're thinking! This is such a useless thread that only talks about love. Well, I really have no idea but I just wanted to make a guide. Well it's not a guide really... I don't really know what it's called. This is dedicated to my best friend who just got out of a rough relationship and still can't forget the guy. Tia, this is for you. So please no HATE You could also add some ways of forgetting him/her! ----------- HI! Have you just gotten out of a rough relationship...? Have you forgotten him/her? Well, if you answered yes on the first question and no on the second one, this is the right guide for you! First, I'd like to introduce myself! I'm Sky~ and I'll be touring you today. So... Second... Back to the topic! Based on my experience, I got out of a three years relationship a year ago, and guess what...? I've moved on! Of course I love him, at first I was crying rivers! But then, since I stood strong and looked at the positive side, I got through it! It's not that I don't love him anymore, he'll be forever in my heart since he's my first love. But I can't keep hanging on to the past. It's BAD. •How did you move on, Sky? A: Well, first... I cried until I was feeling okay! Then, my mother said to eat chocolates because sweets can make you feel better, and it really helped! But please! Not too much! •Was it hard? A: Honestly, it was really ******* hard! HAHAHA. But you know... Try to mingle with friends. Call them and hang out! REMEMBER! Refrain from talking about "love". That's what I did. Well there were times when it slipped and I couldn't help but cry. But they were just there, for me. •What if he wants you back? A: Well, honey... If he was the one who broke you like cheated on you, DON'T. I won't say to follow your heart. Nuh-uh. Not on this thread. •But shouldn't we follow our hearts? A: It's up to you. But don't just go on and follow your heart without thinking a logical reason! For example, you are really in love with your bf that's a drug addict and can not stop, and then you have an opportunity to go study in an Ivy League school, yet because you really love him you stayed with him and you two have no future together. So... In the end you regret right? If he was a guy who has a capability to raise money, then that's fine. •What other tricks did you use to forget? A: Writing! Even if you're bad at it, try it. Just to let out your emotions. Not to keep them flowing in your heart! Music too~ not depressing music! Uh-uh! Music that can make you feel alive! For example, hardcore music! Just go with the song, it will let your anger out. ---- So enough with Q and A! to summarize it up. Here are some tips. • Eat chocolates to make you feel better • Hang out with friends and refrain from talking about "love" • Keep your mind occupied (NOT OF HER/HIM!) • Keep yourself busy • Express your feelings through talking to someone (Limit it.) • Express your heartbreak, anger, loneliness by writing and playing music (Not depressing music please) • Refrain from talking to him/her until you move on • DELETE HIS/HER number on your phone! And if you memorize it the fuck off! I'm kidding. Just don't text or call him. If s/he does that to you, DO NOT REPLY! • If he/she wants to be JUST friends, don't accept. It will only break the two of you. • refrain from talking about your past • Take off all the pictures of you and him/her on a site or in your room (If it is OFFICIALLY OVER AND THERE'S NO CHANCE) • Clean out the gifts s/he gave you or love letters and such. (If it is OFFICIALLY OVER AND THERE'S NO CHANCE) • ALWAYS BE POSITIVE AND LOOK TO A MORE BRIGHTER FUTURE. • MOVE THE **** ON! • LAUGH. IT'S THE BEST MEDICINE. (But please, don't overdo it. You'd look crazy. seriously) ---- I hope this will kinda help! Hope you guys will add more tips! Thanks for reading! Ps. I forgot about the AND sign. Sorry
Boo I never read it. But if u say no hate.. More hate u shall receive. (Dont really care of the grammar mistakes. Did them on purpose )
To forget him/her, it's easy: do not talk to them or about about them. just stop bringing the past to the present. It's gone with the wind. Period.
to move on? get another one easy as that not really to some person, but oh well, everyone hv their own point view