This issue has been disturbing my mind for quiet some time. Should some one be compelled to lose theirs just because of peer pressure?
Marriage .-. if before that then with a person I am certain I want to do it with, not some person from any party.
No. You'll lose it when you're ready and when you're with the right person. Don't lose it just because of peer pressure. If you do, you'll regret it and it won't be as enjoyable as if you had lost it with someone who you sincerely had feelings for and vice versa
No one should feel pressured to lose their virginity especially if your under the age of 18. Eighty percent of people in the world look down upon people who have had sex before 16. Unless you feel you are ready, and you are using not just one but two kinds of protection, because no one wants to me a teen mother, then there should be no pressure to do it. If a person is pressuring you for it and you tell them no and they keep pressuring then they don't care enough for you and your feelings making them not worth your time. Do things when you're ready, not when someone else is.
No even then I think thats too early ! They won't be able to finish school or get a career established or do anything fun in life like a young adult because they have a kid they need to watch. And not pass off the responsibility to the teens parents.
._. my step brother had a kid when he was 18, he went to fed-ex, and now they're thinking of putting him manager. Not a bad job when he was 19ish
I would wait until you're ready. You'll know. It won't be because you're drunk or just wanna fit in, you'll know when it's with the right person. I lost mine on my 16th birthday with someone I loved. I'm not with them now but I dont regret it I'm glad I got to share it with someone that I always will care about.. But really there's no rush, and you'll know when it's the right time.
I plan on losing it after my marriage or at least when school is finally done. For example High School and College. Unfortunately my brother wants to do it when he enter's high school and that's in September . He shouldn't do that and focus on his school work instead.
His goal is to lose his virginity when he gets INTO highschool in September? If that is his goal right off the bat, then..haha, he's going to be like the people I go to school with.
"I took a virgin mary axe to his sweet baby jane, lost my innocence to a no good girl, Scratch my face with anvil hands, and coil my tongue around a bumblebee mouth........ And I give it .... all back to you." Good tune.
It was sad cuz Before even in high school I heard some girls talking about having sex. Which just shows how sad such generation is. Look, in high school if people I know lose their virginity I won't shun them and call them horrible because I honestly don't expect much in this time, but I know where I stand in this. I won't be one of them, most of those people don't even love the person they lose it to. They're supposed to be special. Like atleast if you dated them for a year. You should not be pressured, pressure is lust not love. For you people who do prefer it in high school, if you're a guy then you better know what you're getting into and if you back out If the girl is pregnant you better guarentee somehow you will be haunted you jerk. And if you're the girl you're no more innocent than him. You guys both know there was a possiblity of it happening and if it did then you take it like a man. -_- I mean if you do that at such a young age atleast feel something strong for each other, strong enough to hold you two together when such thing could tear you apart. In my opinion it's best to get married and be an age to where you're mature for real and you think better than you did in high school. I know for me I'll make sure he's the one, and not like how most girls say it and end up crying in the bathroom pregnant and he left with another girl. I mean he devotes his heart to me and he promised to protect mine, and when he's says he's there forever he means it through the strongest storms. Never should you let someone beg you to do that with you if you have the slightest doubt about it, cuz there's nothing wrong with being a virgin. Don't be one of them...it's not worth it. In my opinion even though I've never experienced the feeling and I won't til a long time lol I will always know that love beats sex.
In my opinion, people are quite fortunate to have the choice on when they will lose their virginity. I don't think anyone should ever have to give into peer pressure for something so personal and that's all your own.