Why are people afraid of confessing? Including me? I mean honestly the worst thing that could happen is they reject you, yes I know it sucks to love someone who doesn't love you, but they just showed you that you don't need them. I'm not saying get on the school intercom and say "Jake I love you.".....I mean find some time for both of you and what not then inch your way to watcha wanna say. I mean you've been hiding behind poles and thinking about the person for too long. And if you never confess you'll never know. Although it'd be easier if you had hints that they like you. Let's face it: you'd be more confident if you knew that person gets in their when they see your face. So if they like hanging out with you and really care for you and you think they like you, you should really step that up. Don't confuse liking someone with best friends, I mean it's crazy. It sucks being in the friendzone but be careful if you do confess to your friend. One of the worst things I think of in relationships is when you're best friends with someone then you like them and they're not into you that way. It's never the same is it? Well it could possibly become the same over time but just be careful. If they mean a lot to you then try not to hurt them. Because people tend to remember mistakes rather than good times. Overall just really think about it and if you really want to tell them then tell them. Why hold back on how you feel? If you end up crashing and burning if you guys do go out, pick yourself up, and dust yourself off. Everyone has someone out there just for them, it takes awhile to find someone worthwhile. But it's like being blind and paralyzed (that's...horrible), just cuz you can't see it or feel it, doesn't mean it's not there. As long as you believe it, everything will seem fair.
Can you tell me what is a possible approach to 'crushes' wherein I don't know the person at all but I have a certain liking for that person? It's quite easy to say "just approach him/her and say hi" Isn't there a less weird approach wherein the person wont think you're a complete weirdo stranger talking to him/her?
I finally told my crush I was badly in love with him and he said me too and that was 5 years ago and to this day I love him even more and he proposed to me ^_^
Not everyone has a perfect situation where in both people like each other. Given that I dont know anything about the other person. what do I do?
I know it's not like that in my situation like my friend he likes this girl and when he told her the girl looked at him like he was retarded and called him stupid for telling her than and that he should go away
I need to do that, my mind knows what I need to do, I tell everyone to do the stuff I can't do all the time. I'm a hipocrit, I live in fear because I'm afraid of embarrassment, but truthfully I need to realize that no matter what anyone says about me, I know who and what I am. Maybe my heart will someday come to realize that.
Mmmmmmmmm...I'd love to say the OP is right...but there's some obvious cases where you just don't do that. At all. And, otherwise, I would agree with what she's saying. But y'all need more self confidence than being soooooooo afraid to tell someone something because you're afraid of what they might think.
@immortal erm simply go and tell her? The worst answer you can get is a no. If so just get over it and find the person for you. The world is big.
Well I'm only in middle school so I don't need the stress of having my crush find out. I'm not even allowed to date yet so... But good advice for the future!
If you don't know them then get to know them, I mean you can't criticize someone for saying hi, atleast not reasonably. And there are those stuck up insignificant people that shoot people down overly hard, I think that's immature and unneccessary. But hey if they do that they weren't good enough for you and you deserve better. Yes you can eventually tell her how you feel, because if you really like her you'll feel the need to tell her sometime
To be honest, I just confessed to this girl that I've liked her since my freshman year of highschool. Now she's all ooglyboogly.
Oogly boogly? Hehe that word is funny and i know but some people feel the need to hide when they see their crush XD