I NEED ADVICE!!!!

My parents met when my mother was 12 and my dad was 15. They started dating and never dated anyone else.

Some people may not know what love is but age is not a factor. Age is just a number. You can truly love someone no matter your number.

 

...wow


OMJ you have the best ideas!! Where do you get them from? 

Because you're damn surely confusing me.

 

Internet.

 

Not you, silly goose!!


To be honest, we can't give you good advice because we don't know you.

 

Oh.

That's why I said get a psychiatrist.

 

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Ask a friend.

 

If it had friends why would it be on here asking us?

 

Maybe her friends are all in Hawaii. Or getting waxed. I hear that hurts.

 

And you still fall them friends?

 

Ummm well what advice do you want to hear? Follow your heart and may all your dreams come true?

If he's a friend maybe you should just focus on being a great friend to him. When a guy is interested he will tell you. Lol, I say wait it out for now... If its meant to be, it'll happen.

Caution: If my advice doesn't work, you followed it at your own risk.

 

Make him food and invite him places. That will tell him that you like him.

 

My advice is to focus on your studies. Because any relationship requires time and effort. And it will definitely eat into your education.

At your age, my dear girl, I know it's all about experimentations and trying out new things. But are you able to handle the emotional stresses that it may bring about, and not let it affect your schoolwork?

I know I sound like an old uncle. When I was at your age, I used to think these grown ups are so annoying. You may find me annoying too. But that is because I care. This is what I came to learn as the years went by.

As long as you can handle the stresses, go right ahead. But breakups MIGHT be inevitable and can you handle the situation?

Pardon me for being so blunt about this. But this is something you have to know. And perhaps this might be something you need to learn by yourself. I wish you all the best. Don't forget your studies. 

 

I say just be honest.. I had the same issue with a loong good friend of mine and I just got tired of wondering the "what if" side of things and asked him.... I now have 2 kids with him 

 

Hmmm I'm wouldn't say just straight up ask him unless you have huge ovaries  ok that was dumb. Anyways 1. I'm the same age and yes you can love someone for real at that age, but I'm not sure because my maturity is high, and I understand things well. 2. It depends on how close you two are, how is he when you are around? Has he given any hints he likes you back. 3. If it doesn't work out just remember you have a lot more guys to go than just that. Don't give up ^_^