That's the wimpy way of doing it. Farm someone who's going to get mad and amuse you via wall posts. Farm someone who can fight back. Join a war. If you win you get a nice bonus. Volleying is even riskier than this. At least you can lose money that way.
Dude. You can't expect active forumers to stay away from you. Get off forums. You don't help anyone. And I think you bypassed.
Join a club or make new friend through forums and campus chat. There are people who will help you. Most will not reveal their inactive farms to anyone out in public for fear that they may get DTW (defender too weak). Meanwhile, keep doing jobs.