Stranger Danger

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by NeonQueen, Jan 30, 2012.

  1. The Guide to Spotting predators

    As I'm sure many of you know, talking with people you don't know online can be a very serious and dangerous thing.
    I know it's not possible for me alone to stop you all from doing what you want, but I do want to give you some ways you can spot a predator easily.

     Speech 

    There are two main ways a predator talks when trying to allure a naive, innocent person.
    . And most commonly used one, they talk very "Dirt". They would come out and say something very perverted. Or even pressure you into speaking "Dirty" as well.
    . They give you the "perfect innocence" act. They manipulate you into thinking they are the image of perfection. The less expected to ever do anything wrong. They will dedicated hours, days, weeks, months, maybe even years of softening you up, and making you believe they are perfectly innocent.
    --I understand there are many others ways they could possibly try as well

    Questions

    If the predators are interested in finding you, they will now and then ask you a few small seemingly innocent questions.
    Such as: "So what school do you go to?" . "Is your parents home?". "What does your house you look like?".

    By asking these questions they will slowly learn everything they will need to know to come find you, and what time to come get you without your parents being around.

    Truthfulness

    A predator usually already has a story planned out to tell you when you ask for details from them. But sometimes when a predator has told so many lies they aren't sure what they have told you, you'll see that they weren't being truthful.
    Such as: you have been talking you the boy from Florida, he told you he was blonde, and was 16. Well you have been talking for a while and he asks if you would like to come to his 21st birthday party a month later.
    This tells you two things, if this boy wasn't a predator, he was still a liar, and not someone you could trust.
    But not all predators are like that, some are much more careful.

     Their Story 

    When getting to know a possible predator they will give you fake details of their lives, but they won't give you much details. They will tend to "Keep things simple".
    There are two different ways their stories could go.
    . No details. They tell you things such as their "age", a favorite sport, a favorite school subject, but they often won't answer why they have a favorite if a certain thing.
    . Looking for sympathy. They will tell you tons of dramatic issues with their lives. It makes things easier if their prey feels bad for them. And they will make up ridiculous stories, such as; getting shot, losing a family member, physically hurting themselves.

     Photos 

    All predators at one point will try talking you into sending inappropriate pictures. Not only is this illegal for younger children, but if not careful it could ruin someone's life. A predator will be very persistent in getting pictures from you, and much less willing to send you one.
     On the flip side, a good way to tell if some isn't a fake person or predator is if they could give you more then one picture, with what ever you might want them to wear.

     Thank you for those who took the tine to read this. Please be safe out there, and think before clicking on that chat button 

    ~Alida
     
  2. You have no proof 
     
  3.  Very well written and can be applied to more than one area 
     
  4. I PROMISE I DIDN'T RAPE THE CAT
     
  5. pwnd  you nut loaf
     
  6. A legit Facebook would help lol
     
  7. Best way to rappel them is too have a gun  
     
  8. Crossfire the only joke here is your lack of maturity. If you can't find the idiot in a village it's you.
     
  9. La la la...
     
  10. great thread thank you
     
  11. Elmo's world.. 
     
  12. Mellie x) ha
     
  13. yay thanks for this good thread
     
  14. Please stop. A perv thread a stranger danger thread? Go get a hobby other than making threads. Other peoples children.