What stuff you do that make talking easy

You don’t talk.You text.

 

i find that talking is easiest when you use your voice, hope this helps! 😊

 

Idk but I notice most of my memorable convos start off very general & then we dive deeper into certain topics that we’re both interested in lol

 

Alcohol/drugs. But then they're only your friends when you're not sober

 

Then text!

 

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I can’t talk my eyes don’t work

 

Wait really..??

 

Ooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

 

Well. I feel like more should have been provided for dis, but I shall make do.

What makes talking easier for me?

In general, I don't have much of hard time talking with others, or even holding a conversation to be honest.

But yes there are times when I do have trouble and that usually happens when I'm in this self-conscious state, yuh know. Like I'm stuck in my head for whatever reason. I'm too busy paying attention to myself. Will they like me? What should I say? Will their momma like me? Blah blah blah blah shut da fock up brain, like my brain takes me on dis insanely annoying ride, and then I'm all freezing up and shyt, then things are just awkward as fock, ya know.

When that happens instead of focusing on the inner monologue and myself, I shift my focus on the present, the present moment. Instead of focusing on what I'm gonna say next, or this or that and I simply just say something and bam the inner monologue just slowly fades away, or fades away enough for me to ignore it. from then it's just smooth sailing, brudder. Gotta keep it organic, tho my dude

This usually makes it easier for me.

 

Have you tried explaining this to the person you're talking to? Explain that you don't really know what is "wrong" to say, and ask them to tell you if you say something they don't like.
And then when someone tells you that they don't like talking about something, you just don't talk about that again and have a different conversation